
This picture doesn't have anything to do with our little update, I just love little feet!
Since it's been a while since we blogged, I will just give you little snipits of our last month!
The 36 Hour Talk
About three weeks ago, I (Sidra) got a surprising call from a member of our Stake Presidency, asking if I wouldn't mind speaking in the adult session of stake conference, which happened to be the next day! The original speaker ended up with emergency surgery, and I guess I was the runner up (if that's what you call it?) on their list. I was very blessed for saying yes, because in the next 36 hours, I was able to prepare a talk. Which any mom can say is a miracle with 2 small children. Part of my little miracle is having an amazing husband who let me hide away for half of Saturday so that I could prepare the talk! The other part of the miracle was having 2 babies who slept in that morning 2 hours past when they usually wake up!
The talk was on becoming child like, lessons from our little ones. It was a great experience for me to reflect on lessons that I've learned from my girls' examples to me. Here are a couple of examples that I used:
1. Over labor day weekend, our family hiked up squaw peak. During the hike, we were explaining to Meili that we were very proud of her for being able to hike for over an hour nearly all on her own. Then, as we needed to help her by pulling her up an especially steep part, we told her that sometimes we still need others to help us. We pointed out that just like we were helping her up the hard parts, Heavenly Father helps US up the hard parts, too, in life.
She quickly replied, "Yeah, 'cause Heavenly Father is REALLY strong!" She continued on by explaining that Heavenly Father was "Even stronger than Daddy!". And she didn't stop there, but went on to demonstrate Heavenly Father's large muscles and what He could do with those muscles, like "Lift a mountain, move the trees", etc. and how that was WAY more than Daddy could do!
How often are we this submissive to God and His power? She has learned a valuable lesson early on to rely on Heavenly father because she knows of His great strength to help us in our uphill battles.
2. Our girls are great examples of being full of love. Sophia is quite wise, though she speaks only a little, she shows us her wisdom by timely hugs and kisses and excitement after not seeing us for a while. Meili, too, often tells me, "I still love you Mommy". The still is the key part. Children see us for who we really are. And such christ-like charity of still loving us, it is "No wonder... in certain moments we feel children are our spiritual superiors, "willing to submit" to [all that has] been inflicted upon them (Mosiah 3:19)." (Elder Maxwell, Becometh As a Child, Ensign, May 1996)
Good Distractions
Scott and I have been stressed the last month trying to make big decisions for our family, so we both jumped at the opportunity to have some of our favorite distractions; sports! Of course, we have loved the BYU football season starting, which means going to the games with Scott's Dad who has season tickets, but we have also loved this season so far with some tailgate parties, and also some friends over to watch the away games at our house!
But BYU football wasn't what I meant by sports. I meant INTRAMURALS! Intramurals are a strange phenomena at BYU. The same, perhaps, as ward teams are a strange phenomena in general in the competitive world of sports. Competitive sports are the LDS version of mardi gras, where we think God perhaps will forgive us of our outbursts of anger, and our general unchristian behavior, in the name of "the game".
So far, we actually haven't witnessed this yet this season in Scott's flag football games, nor in Sidra's Volleyball games, but we love to joke about it. Especially since last year we saw WAY too much of it. For a sad example, some of Scott and my acquaintances that Sidra played against last year (and beat), haven't been too keen on saying "Hi" back to us in the halls of church this past year because they thought my team cheated last year, which secured our win over them. Sad, huh!
Luckily there haven't been any such incidents this year, so when I say, "good distractions", I actually mean it!